wingman là gì

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Wingman (or wingmate) is a role that a person may take when a friend needs tư vấn with approaching potential romantic partners. People who have a wingman can have more than vãn one wingman.[1] A wingman is someone who is on the "inside" and is used lớn help someone with intimate relationships. In general, one person's wingman will help them avoid attention from undesirable prospective partners or attract desirable ones, or both.[2]

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The term originated in combat aviation in various international military aviation communities shortly before and after the advent of fighter jets. Pilots flying in formation, especially when in combat training or in actual aerial combat, refer lớn the pilot immediately next lớn them (traditionally on their right, sometimes on either side) as their "wingman" (the man on their wing). In actual aerial combat pilots are often trained lớn attack and defend in pairs watching out for each other, thereby making the term even more clearly demonstrated.

The term is also very commonly used in combat aviation on longer range aviation patrols which are often carried out by only two fighter planes, sometimes manned by only two pilots depending on the type of aircraft. On these two plane patrols (Air Force) or "watches" (Naval Aviators flying protective patterns around surface vessels on timed intervals) referring lớn the pilot that an aviator is teamed with on patrol as their "wingman" is very common.[citation needed]

In sociology[edit]

In 2007, sociologist David Grazian interviewed male students at the University of Pennsylvania on their dating habits, and postulated that the wingman role was part of collective "girl hunt" rituals that allow young men lớn collectively perform masculinity. Grazian writes:

"the wingman serves multiple purposes: he provides validation of a leading man's trustworthiness, eases the interaction between a single male friend and a larger group of women, serves as a source of distraction for the friend or friends of a more desirable target of affection, can be called on lớn confirm the wild (and frequently misleading) claims of his partner and, perhaps most important, helps motivate his friends by building up their confidence. Indeed, men describe the role of the wingman in terms of loyalty, personal responsibility and dependability, traits commonly associated with masculinity…"[3]

Popular usage[edit]

Popular truyền thông media and informal discourse describe a situation in which a pair of friends are socialising together, approaching other pairs and groups while avoiding the awkwardness or perceived aggression of acting alone. The wingman strikes up conversation and proposes group social activities, providing their friend with a pleasant and unthreatening social pretext lớn chat or flirt with a particular attractive person. The wingman can also keep their friend safe by preventing them from drinking excessively or behaving in a reckless or socially embarrassing way.[4]

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The wingman can occupy the attention of any less attractive people in the other group, allowing their friend lớn express an interest in the most attractive group thành viên.

Despite the name, wingmen are not exclusively male; women can also act as wingmen.[5] Wingmen also vì thế not necessarily share their friend's sexual orientation; gay people can be wingmen for straight friends, and vice versa.[6]

Certain sources describe the wingman role as a part of pickup artistry, with women referred lớn as "targets" and men as "pilots".[7] Others highlight the ability of a wingman (of any gender) lớn step in and rescue their female friend from unwanted persistent sexual advances.[8]

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American entrepreneur Thomas Edwards founded a dating service called The Professional Wingman,[9] in which he performs the wingman role for socially reticent clients, coaching them on the social skills needed lớn approach potential romantic partners in bar settings. Edwards emphasises that he is not a pick-up artist.[10]

In fiction and popular culture[edit]

The term 'wingman' was popularised by its use in the 1986 romantic military action drama film Top Gun, in which US Navy pilots are shown in a bar pursuing women in pairs, similarly lớn their in-flight tactics. Nick 'Goose' Bradshaw (Anthony Edwards) is the best friend and wingman lớn Pete 'Maverick' Mitchell (Tom Cruise). In a much-quoted line from the over of the film, Maverick's former archrival, Tom 'Iceman' Kazansky (Val Kilmer), shows his respect lớn Maverick when he says, "You can be my wingman anytime."[11]

Other characters claimed as wingmen in literature,[12] film[13] and popular culture[14] include:

  • Horatio, Hamlet's best friend in William Shakespeare's play.
  • Cyrano de Bergerac, the witty but ugly protagonist of Edmond Rostand's 1897 play, who helps his handsome but foolish friend Christian lớn woo Roxane, the woman with whom Cyrano himself is hopelessly in love.
  • Dr John Watson, the trusted friend and colleague of Sherlock Holmes.
  • Samwise Gamgee, the loyal companion of Frodo Baggins in JRR Tolkien's The Lord of the Rings.
  • Bud Baxter (Jack Lemmon) in Billy Wilder's 1960 film The Apartment, who loans his Thành Phố New York apartment lớn four of his bosses as a place for their extramarital affairs.
  • Sharon and Susan (Hayley Mills), twin sisters raised separately, who meet at summer camp and decide lớn matchmake their divorced parents in the film series The Parent Trap.
  • Mr Spock, the endlessly logical Vulcan second-in-command lớn Captain Kirk in Star Trek.
  • Cameron Frye (Alan Ruck), who lends his father's prized Ferrari lớn his best friend Ferris Bueller (Matthew Broderick) in the film Ferris Bueller's Day Off.
  • Lisa (Kelly LeBrock), a computer-generated 'ideal woman' in the film Weird Science, who teaches horny nerds Gary Wallace (Anthony Michael Hall) and Wyatt Donnelly (Ilan Mitchell-Smith) how lớn approach girls.
  • Trent (Vince Vaughn) in Doug Liman's 1996 film Swingers, who tries lớn get his heartbroken friend Mike (Jon Favreau) back in the dating game.
  • Roger Swanson (Campbell Scott) in the film Roger Dodger, an obnoxious pick-up artist who coaches his nephew Nick (Jesse Eisenberg) on how lớn seduce women.
  • Jack (Thomas Haden Church) in Alexander Payne's film Sideways, who helps his downtrodden friend Miles (Paul Giamatti) lớn pursue the beautiful Maya (Virginia Madsen).
  • Officers Slater and Michaels (Bill Hader and Seth Rogen) in the film Superbad, who after a night of carousing with nerdy teen Fogell (Christopher Mintz-Plasse), 'fake arrest' him lớn make him appear cool lớn his crush.
  • Barney Stinson (Neil Patrick Harris) in the TV sitcom How I Met Your Mother, who seeks lớn pass on his wealth of pick-up artist knowledge lớn his friend Ted Mosby (Josh Radnor).
  • Magic Carpet, the sentient carpet from the Disney film Aladdin. It helps Aladdin on his first date with Princess Jasmine, famously during the tuy nhiên "A Whole New World".
  • In the movie Captain America: The First Avenger, Sgt. James "Bucky" Barnes acts as Steve Rogers's wingman, even after Steve was augmented lớn become the iconic Captain America.[15][circular reference]
  • During the 2018 Formula One World Championship, the finnish driver Valtteri Bottas of Mercedes AMG Petronas team was attributed the title of "Wingman" by the Media.

See also[edit]

  • Bro Code
  • Chaperone
  • Sidekick


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  15. ^ Captain America: The First Avenger